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You are invited to our 4th Annual Memorial Day Party on Saturday, 5/25!
I/We are looking for
We are the largest, most active, and longest-running swingers group in Hawaii and extend our aloha to everyone in the community! We are aka Volcano Group Hawaii and have entertained 1000+ couples at 100+ private soirees and hotel parties over the last five years. Unlike other groups, we make no pretense of being "new, hot, or classy". We're happy to let others make such claims and toot their horns. Instead, we seek those who are friendly, well-meaning, and cooperative. We are open and accepting, not exclusive, and do not discriminate on the basis of age, race, appearance, sexual preference, or disability. We enjoy entertaining folks who like to get naked and have sex with intimate friends on a regular basis. We care more about personality than we do about objective stats & photos. We appreciate those who are upbeat, sociable, and unselfish.
We have learned the youngest, prettiest couples are not necessarily the friendliest and that friendly people come in all ages, sizes, and shapes. Whereas other groups may reject those who lack Ken & Barby looks, we are nonjudgmental and will accept you as you are. Our parties are suitable for a wide range of people including voyeurs and first-timers as well as experienced swingers. Those who are intimidated by the notion of a "big party" should realize the environment at our parties is safe and controlled. We are not an Animal House group given to wild, crazy affairs that end with being kicked out of hotels and blackballed by hotel management. Instead, our horizons are long term so we insist noise levels be kept low. At our current venue, we have never had a single noise complaint or visit from hotel security and intend to keep it that way.
Describe Yourself:
Our group's members are friendly, out-going, and unpretentious folks who enjoy getting naked together on a regular basis. Our group is constantly changing complexion and we enjoy entertaining a wide variety of people from all over the world. Our members and guests range in age from 18yo-99yo and everything in between. We welcome everyone who comes with an open mind and a positive, nonjudgmental attitude. At the end of the day, being "young, fit, HWP, VGL, attractive, etc." doesn't necessarily make one friendly and cooperative. We seldom ask for photos & stats as we are hosting a party, not a beauty contest. We are not movie stars and enjoy living in Hawaii, not Hollywood.
As for the popular notion of there being a swingers "lifestyle", we are unafraid to profess there is none. Please bear in mind that we have met at least 2,000 swingers over a five year period and have yet to find anything that visibly marks these people as having adopted anything that merits use of the term, "lifestyle". Similarly, there is neither a gay lifestyle nor a lesbian lifestyle.
We believe that what swingers do in the bedroom, at parties/events, or on specialized cruises is nothing more than a bedroom secret, something most people don't talk about openly or share with family. Having sex with people other than one's primary partner on a casual basis doesn't amount to a lifestyle in the truest sense of the word.
The word, "lifestyle" is much better used when referring to wholesale differences that distinguish one group or community from another. For example, one might speak of an urban lifestyle versus a rural lifestyle, an island lifestyle versus a Mainland lifestyle, or a healthy, active lifestyle versus a sedentary lifestyle. When you wear an aloha shirt to work here in Honolulu but a suit when in New York, THAT marks a lifestyle difference. It's something that affects all aspects of one's life and nearly everyone in a given community. Bedrooms secrets do not rise to that level and using the term, "lifestyle", to describe bedroom secrets amounts to unwarranted self-aggrandizement.
Last but not least, we understand and appreciate local ways and sensibilities. Unlike other groups, our goal is to maintain a low profile at our venues, get to know the help, and avoid getting thrown out of one venue after another. We enforce sensible rules, something other groups evidently neglected to copy. We are not foolish and have not had a visit from hotel security in over three years.
Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
We have hosted 100+ private soirees and hotel parties over the last five years. In the last three years alone, we have hosted over 1000 couples. Our events feature a WOMEN ONLY session, if warranted, as well as a MIXED session. Our next event will be our 4th Annual Memorial Day Party on Saturday, May 25th. Our WOMEN ONLY and MIXED sessions will run concurrently from 7:00pm-2:00am. One bedroom will be reserved for WOMEN ONLY play, if warranted. There is a modest donation for all our events, payable in advance via bank deposit.
If you would like to get naked with us please send us your email addy so we can mail you an invitation. When you receive our invitation please reply to confirm so we can send you our donation deposit instructions. Once you have made your donation we will send you our location/parking/things-to-bring information and you'll be all set.
What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
We love to hear from visitors, especially as regards other swingers groups and clubs in the USA and around the world. If you'll show us how folks do it on the Mainland we'll show you our sexual aloha here in Hawaii. We sometimes organize small private soirees for visitors, especially those who can entertain in their hotel rooms. Alternatively, we may be able to organize a small Special Engagement for you in a suite at our favorite Waikiki hotel venue. Please let us hear from you. Aloha!
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